So what do you need to do to make her heart melt and eventually say yes to you?Here are some tips and advices which would greatly help you win her heart. I was born and raised in the Philippines, a small country in the shape of an upside down "Y" in Southeast Asia.I moved to New York when I was 14 and desperately tried to find a balance between my culture and the new unfamiliar Western culture.Here I am a 26yr old foreigner semi-fluent in Bisaya, basic knowledge of Tagalog who is living in the Philippines. I have met some Filipinas that right away make me wish I had the privilege of saying… It helps me inspire some positive thinking in the minds of people I look up to… I have found over the course of my time in the Philippines I have pushed away any opportunity I may have had to date a Filipina and to get close to a Filipina. In fact just a few days ago a foreigner told me: “You must be a big hit with the ladies. Get a few beers in you and I bet all the stories will come out.” Stories of a 26yr old who even though maybe lonely in that aspect of his life, just doesn’t agree with people focusing on being with girls here as being the best part of the Philippines. I completely understand why foreigners talk about the girls here so much, because they are amazing, and yes chances are you will get a lot of attention from them if you are a nice guy. One day we were hanging out looking for ingredients to make some food.Now if you are Filipino reading this I want you to stop here and think: If you didn’t know me, had no clue what I was doing here in the Philippines. What would your guess be as to how I got here, and why I choose to stay here? We headed to the market in Cebu to pick up fresh vegetables.In fact, historically, Filipino courtship involves the guy doing service for the girl’s family (fetching water, fixing a broken roof, etc.) as physical proof of your devotion to her and the family. At the same time, I know some Filipinas who don’t mind if their significant other is of another religion or don’t identify with a religion. When my cousins in interracial relationships bring their significant others to our home for the first time, they're always overwhelmed by the amount of food my mother manages to prepare in a two-day period (Yes, two. Family is the most important thing to us — sometimes even more important to us than you. ) So, as the Spice Girls say: If you wanna be her lover, you gotta get with her friends ... But be warned that even if they don't care, their family might, so tread carefully.3. You're at her house for the first time for dinner and you're confused —about the mountain of food in front of you.
As soon as you realized that you have feelings for her, simply saying “I Like You” or “I Love You” would not help you convey your intention clearly.The traditional dating customs in the Philippines is described as indirect and more subdued compared to the Western dating cultures.The dating culture in the Philippines involves stages and phases before you finally have the right to call her your girlfriend.A lot of foreigners come to find a Filipina to love and care for them. we know a lot of foreigners come to take advantage of Filipina girls (that hurts me to, it is sick and I dream of the day that changes). In some cases people will be so vocal about it, that it can be uncomfortable.I understand that it would be common to assume that I would be here due to a Filipina. I will always take time to respond to people who make those comments in a positive way.You can unsubscribe at any time by sending us a request at [email protected] When you register, and from time to time thereafter, TCC may require that you provide sufficient information to indicate that you are at least 18 years old.