“This really feels like pre-emptive repression and fear mongering to subdue growing support for BDS at SU and on campuses throughout the US.”The film at the center of the controversy was created by Israeli filmmaker Shimon Dotan, presenting a decidedly negative portrayal of the settlers who occupy Palestinian land in the West Bank and influence government policy. Blizek, a professor of philosophy and religion at the University of Nebraska, reached out this summer to the producers of the film to suggest a screening at Syracuse University’s upcoming spring conference, titled “The Place of Religion in Film.”But then in late June, Professor M.
Gail Hamner, who teaches in the Syracuse University Religion Department, wrote a letter to Dotan reversing the offer.
Whether it’s where I’m eating, where I’m traveling or, God forbid, something I’m buying, like a lot of people in my generation—those in their 20s and 30s—I feel compelled to do a ton of research to make sure I’m getting every option and then making the best choice.
If this mentality pervades our decisionmaking in so many realms, is it also affecting how we choose a romantic partner?
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The piece was headlined, “A Million First Dates: How Online Romance Is Threatening Monogamy,” and was accompanied by a series of illustrations showing a scruffy young guy who is more riveted by his online dating service than the women in his real life (surely you can picture the artwork without even seeing it; just imagine any illustration that has ever accompanied an article about video games or porn).
”In the excerpt, Slater doesn’t answer these questions conclusively, but he does give an example of a young man who feels that online dating has encouraged him to play the field, and he quotes a dating site exec who wonders whether the efficiency of Web matchmaking will make marriage “obsolete.” In this day and age, them’s still fighting words, and the Atlantic knew it.
The magazine’s website was quick to host a handful of responses to Slater’s piece, as writers all over the Web piled on.
The arguments were varied — that people use dating sites for love, not sex, that the experience of it makes them long even more for commitment, that online dating is not nearly as fun as Slater’s experts suggest, that modern relationships would be done “a service” by reducing the pressure to be monogamous and that Slater relied too heavily on the biased source of online dating executives to support his thesis and failed to include quotes from any women, not to mention queer people.
I asked my dad about this experience, and here’s how he described it: he told his parents he was ready to get married, so his family arranged meetings with three neighboring families. That’s how my dad decided on the person with whom he was going to spend the rest of his life.
I am perpetually indecisive about even the most mundane things, and I couldn’t imagine navigating such a huge life decision so quickly. Happily so—and probably more so than most people I know who had nonarranged marriages.