Dating an emotionally abused woman

Emotional and verbal abuse is a way to exert control and power over someone else.Abusers may yell, taunt, call names and threaten their victim.

When you're in an emotionally abusive relationship, it's not always noticeable right away.

You think this could be the start of something serious.

The lies we tell ourselves when we meet someone new are extraordinary.

They reconnected four months prior when she had sent out a text via group messaging app Whatsapp wishing her friends with Oct. Though he had hurt her all those years ago, she included him in the group chat. A short time later, Ani changed her avatar and received a second text from him: "Nice pic." Soon, the two were texting back and forth when he asked her if it would be weird if he still sometimes thought about her. Their conversations continued on and off until months later, when Ani found herself willingly sitting at a table across from the man who hurt her all those years ago.

A way to put those years of therapy, which had taught her that the easiest way to heal was to forgive, to the test."Wow, thanks," responded the now-stranger."No problem," she replied. The man who, according to Ani, was a pathological liar and master manipulator; who left her depressed, anxious, and bedridden for months; and whose name she could barely speak since their breakup in 2004.


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