Dating a sikh girl

One caller named Jasminder asserts that when Param came down, it became more like a comedy show and less like a dating show given how the women and audience reacted.He continues that turban-wearing men often feel invisible to women, not literally, but “when it comes to actually going out with someone.” I was inundated with the voices of young women in my school casually referring to facial hair as gross or unattractive (with no intention to hurt my feelings I’m sure) and their preference for guys who were “clean-shaven.” CLEAN-shaven. These are the messages we get from our peers and from the media every day.But i also said that my religion talks about that to and that in sikhism all the gurus are not gods they just have sent his message or something of that nature ( shows you how religious i am hahaha) but basically the message is live in unity.

I recommend checking out Nihal’s discussion on the BBC especially starting at around into the show if you don’t have time to listen to the whole thing.Her mom is understanding aswell but her father i dont know if it will be okay.I dont know because she doesnt wear a hijab she doesnt go to jumah and she barely prays. Like if im doing business in a middle east country and they know my wife is muslim believer or not , will there be anything done to me?As a young Sikh, dating in the modern age can be tricky when you come from a family of traditional values.How do you uphold your cultural beliefs and try to date at the same time?The discussion on the BBC program resonated with many thoughts and questions that often swirl around in my head when it comes to the topic of dating for me, and perhaps other turban-wearing Sikh males: Feeling like an outcast for most of one’s life most certainly takes a toll, even if the ways it manifests are more subtle in our adulthood.

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