After a long pause, I got her only thought: "No, I get it," she said emphatically. But it's kinda like asking the newly vegetarian fox to guard the henhouse, isn't it? I worked hard to become the embodiment of seduction." I thought about it, and unfortunately her statement wasn't too far from the truth. To quickly read the spoken and unspoken clues of what a woman was looking for in a man, and then give her the perception I was that guy.If you back me up a few years — sans wife, kids, dogs, published book on relationships, 1.5 million readers and fans following my relationship advice on Facebook — I was a chronic womanizer; a past she knows about, but never experienced personally. In effect, to become so alluring that she would willingly give herself over, thinking that having sex was her idea.To make matters worse, I wasn't some weak pick-up artist using idiotic dating boot camp approaches that reeked of negativity and douchebaggery on vulnerable women in order to break them down and manipulate them into sex. After all, it's much easier to convince people of things they think they have thought of themselves. There's nothing to fear."After another pregnant pause, she consented with a few words of sage advice:"Don't. Up.", nearly 50 percent of married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some point in their marriage.It was quite a rush, and as the wake of emotional destruction would later exemplify, seducing women became my drug of choice."No, babe ... When you consider that these statistics are nearly double what they were a short 10 years ago, clearly this is beyond an issue; it is now commonplace. Futurist Alvin Toffler wrote the best seller in 1970, and with matter-of-fact conviction he wrote of "trial" or "temporary marriages"—young people's first marriages, lasting three months to three years—and of "serial marriages" that would take place after the dissolution of the "trial marriage" at specific turning points in people's lives. Commitment and loyalty or the lack thereof are at the crux of this.
So Eventually I grew tired of it and called him out on his bullshit. I know i’m not a size “2” hell i’m 5’5 and right now a good 207.
Well some things happened while he was gone and I found out about it. I called him out and told him this was enough.he doesn’t get right I’m moving back to North Carolina.
Granted I was hurt because I was stressed as well dealing with my father’s sudden medical condition and him later passing away. “He said I don’t want to jeopardize my family I learned my lesson baby i’m sorry”…I want to believe him and we never had problems like this until 2010.
, when he arrives home early from a trip only to find his girlfriend cheating on him.
The truth, though is that the odds of your girlfriend or wife cheating on you have increased over the years, according to an Indiana University study.