As someone who longs for love, I’ve tried to really analyze what it is that makes dating as gay men more complex, and this is what my personal history has concluded.1. We are first and foremost men, which means most of our libidos run high, but then add to the equation the fact that we’re dating other men, and bam.
I don’t care who you are, or how you identify yourself (Bear, Twink, Jock, Daddy, etc), we’re all constantly horny.
In the difficult journey that is the search for a boyfriend, it’s generally easier to find a man who wants to be tied up, and humiliated for sexual pleasure than it is to find someone to cook at home with and watch “Scandal” together.
As gay men, we have a surplus of opportunities to fulfill our sexual urges in a variety of new and exciting ways, making the thought of settling for one person hardly enticing for many in the community.
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Our walls are high, our hearts are guarded, and we’re still all figuring out exactly what we’re looking for because for many of us, we didn’t see what we’re trying to create growing up.Even if you’re able to find yourself not so wound up, there’s a good chance your gym, your job, your night out, or whatever is going to make you want to do what men are programmed to do, and spill your seed. Going one step deeper into the conversation about gay men and sex, we have to acknowledge how easy it is to find sex.As gay men the testosterone levels are doubled in the dating world, and we are constantly playing with fire as we try to think with our brains and not our dicks. With “dating” app culture running amok, gay men by far have the easiest outlets to look for sex. All the “normal” expectations of our straight counterparts are a lot less expected, and we find ourselves craving the single life one day, and looking for the love of our life the next.Dating does not include listings for all dating sites.When people think of gay dads, they often picture a handsome couple in a photo, smart suits, sunlit backgrounds, and a couple of adorable kids in front.He was married to a woman at the time, with three kids.