It’s not a great feeling and it can be kind of embarrassing to talk about because you don’t want to look bitter or immature – you want to look like you’re over it. So, here’s what it’s REALLY like when your ex gets a new girlfriend, explained in GIFs (because what other way is there to explain things? You and your ex broke up a few months ago and you’ve been pretty miserable. What do you do when your ex starts dating someone new? But how do you know if it’s worth it to try getting back with an ex or if it’s just a disaster waiting to happen?Truthfully, you’ll never really know for sure unless you give it a shot.Queer communities are often small and insular, and once you've found one, you tend to hold on to it for dear life.
But in the beginning, it can be really difficult to get used to the idea of the guy you used to be close with being that close with another girl who isn’t you.
Here are eight ways to know if you should get back with your ex.
By "some time," I don't mean a few days or a week... I know that sounds like a long time, but here's my reasoning: it's normal to feel like you want your ex back immediately after a relationship ends. But if a month passes by and you still want to be with this person just as much as you did the day after the breakup, that means that maybe things just aren't finished between you two yet. You both need a good amount of time alone to figure things out on your own before deciding you want to get back together Source: Shutter Stock want and what's most important to you. Don't make these expectations too big, though (if they are, that's a sign maybe you guys shouldn't get back together).
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