I’m talking about this bizarre open conversation that happens at one of two points in a relationship: You somehow turn “you’re intimidating” into an opening line.
Why, yes, you now have my attention because I’m now curious about your psyche.
I conducted an informal (and utterly unscientific) poll on the Dr.
Nerd Love Facebook Page, trying to get a handle on what guys mean. So let’s take a look at what men say is intimidating… Men can find beauty intimidating; the more attractive the woman, the more advantages society gives her.
• The term “good in relationships” refers to men who are emotionally available, good communicators, hunger for emotional intimacy with their partner and know how to make a woman feel cherished. By definition, nice guys are missing the “seducer” gene; even if they knew how to “play the game,” their conscience would never allow them to sweet-talk and manipulate a woman for their own selfish interests.
• Certainly, many beautiful women have found their soulmates. A woman turns to makeup and fashion to boost her self-esteem and make herself more desirable to men.
Most beautiful people I know have had life experience that adds to the beauty of the flesh and that is fun to share. It just has this limbo feeling like they are waiting for something to happen. I love it when people act beautiful and fill your day with laughter and enjoyment without being all caught up on those average problem.
She’s geeky to her Joss-Whedon-loving core, a Whovian, Vertigo-reading, 3rd edition D&D (none of that 4th ed crap thank you very much) gamer with the con stories to prove it. While it’s true that many men will use it as a polite dodge to avoid saying “I’m not attracted to you”, when it comes up over and over again, it’s a sign that maybe there’s more to it. She’s well educated, with a rapier wit and a willingness to use it. And yet, Friday still remains the most lonely night of the week when she sees all of the happy, laughing couples making plans, having romantic dinners and enjoying the sex while she’s at home with Fringe on the DVR and a bottle of Malbec breathing in the kitchen. Well, whenever she’s interested in a guy – a guy who’s worth her time, because what’s the point of having standards if she’s not going to stick to ‘em? She’s done it all; dating sites, meeting guys at cons, the comic store, chatting up friends from class and at work.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.on what women want from men was so positive that I put together this post to explore the issue from a different angle.