(Photo by Jonathan Leibson/Getty Images for WE tv)NEW YORK, NY - JUNE 21: Patti Stanger arrives to Fran Drescher And Friends 2015 NYC Gay Pride Kick Off And Father's Day Celebration at Pier 40 on June 21, 2015 in New York City.
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Patti Stanger has made a living out of helping wealthy people find love, but she shared a few tips with ET that can help even the average Joe.
There are many pitfalls that go along with online dating, but with Stanger's wisdom, lonely fish in the sea will be on the road to romantic happiness in no time. Stanger insists that you should download multiple dating apps to give yourself the best chance at finding the right person for you.
(Patti is also a Jewish girl raised in Short Hills, New Jersey, and I'm a Jewish girl who went to camp with a lot of girls from Short Hills, New Jersey.) And after almost every break up, bad date, etc. Related: Game, Set, and Cyber-Match My most recent breakup was one of my harder ones.
It came out of the blue and left me with a lot of questions.
, we met a new millionaire, Mateo, and a former player/millionaire from last season, Jimmy D. chose, in Patti's words, a "bimbo drunk-a-poo" named Angel.
It was my cheat day, because I was on a strict diet.And even though I'd never wear a Hervé Léger bandage dress on a first date (granny chic is more my style), I've always felt like Patti Stanger "gets" me.Patti is a no-nonsense, ambitious straight-shooter—all characteristics I think people would use to describe me.WATCH: Wealthy Businessman Featured on 'Millionaire Matchmaker' Arrested 1. A profile photo is often your first impression of a potential suitor, but they don't always give an accurate representation of what the person looks like now. "When they take a picture of the picture of a fuzzy, it's 20 years old."2. According to Stanger, it pays to bypass the fun stuff and get straight to business in terms of being upfront about what you're after in the long term. "Three apps is really good, but if you have the downtime and you can afford to do five, go for it," she said. "Recently a guy came to get me and he wanted me to come to his house, and he wasn't taking no for an answer," she said."Talk about what you really want -- what you are looking for," Stanger said. "You got to take every action you possibly can to find true love."4. "I'm not a fan of that."See photos of Patti Stanger: NEW YORK, NY - JUNE 27: TV personality Patti Stanger attends AOL Build Presents - Patti Stanger From The WE TV Series: 'Million Dollar Matchmaker' at AOL Studios In New York on June 27, 2016 in New York City.Also, I started doing rowing, and I’ve tried Pilates, but I just don’t have it in me, it’s not fast enough.: You meditate, right? PS: Yes, I meditate every day for about 15 to 20 minutes, and sometimes at night if I can't sleep. That's what you think of me and that's okay.’ And then you evolve; you weed out the bad people in your life. You have confidence to go after that dream job or move to a new city or start a new life or just go after the things you normally wouldn't do, because you were afraid.