In order to date a shy guy, you need to be patient, confident and willing to do some work.
But in the end, it will probably be totally worth it.
As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they think.
I also wrote a follow up to this article on some of the unique issues shy women struggle with.
Because of this, shy guys who can’t work up the nerve to talk to a girl they like get screwed.
In order to date a shy guy, you need to be comfortable being the one who takes control and makes the moves… If you’ve ever had, or currently have, a crush on a shy guy, then you know how difficult it can be to deal with them.
There are cute things you can say to a guy to get asked out by him but Not every guy is going to be open about their feelings and just be bold and outright and admit that he is into you.
I’ve gone out with three different guys in the past month.
I'll break this down further below, but their central problem is that they're just really anxious, scared, and inhibited around women.
A common misconception in the dating world is that the guy always has to approach the girl to make the first move.
Not all shy men will have issues that intense or have every characteristic apply to them.
I'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part I'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act.