You weren’t overtly mean to me on our first date, but also I probably could’ve taken a nap during it. Yet my friend Cate brought up an incredibly valid point: Women are socialized to spend so much of their time catering to everyone’s feelings but their own.When you break it off with someone, sometimes you’re just fed up.She stays out way later, drinks way more, has a bunch of random daddies inviting you two on their yachts, and most importantly: you don’t have to compete with her boyfriend for her time.If you ever log onto Grindr, SCRUFF or one of the dozens of other knock-offs only to feel like you’re lost in a sea of newfangled and, at times, completely nonsensical acronyms, you’re not alone.
Like, hey, you’re not just going to be the girl who leaves his place in last night’s outfit at 10 a.m.
It’s a balmy night in Manhattan’s financial district, and at a sports bar called Stout, everyone is Tindering.
The tables are filled with young women and men who’ve been chasing money and deals on Wall Street all day, and now they’re out looking for hookups.
“The majority of the time, it's all about me not wanting to waste another second of my time worrying about someone else’s feelings,” she said.
worse than suspecting your significant other is cheating on you. Heck, if you’re even questioning whether or not your SO is cheating, you should probably break up before it gets ugly — but that’s just my opinion.