First dates are exciting, but they can also be downright nerve-wracking. Asking a question in an email will increase your chance of hearing back from someone you have your eye on!
No worries; you don’t need to remember all of them! You can also use one of these questions in your email correspondence.
Once upon a time, people actually met in real life to date.
I know, what an odd and foreign concept…Dating apps have become the norm among Gen-Yers.
On a first date go for a friendly tone rather than an intimate tone when asking this question. Don’t be afraid to change plans if you arrive at a restaurant and find it’s too noisy for a good conversation.
Why: This shows you're considerate of other people's comfort. Why: If they still live with their Mom or they live with 10 roommates, this tells you something about how they like to live.
Sprinkle them over a few notes back and forth, and try to make them flow organically. Better yet, try to take it offline as quickly as possible so you can move away from being penpals and move into live “data-dating,” in which you’re collecting data about your potential partner while having FUN. Possible answers to this question include “I’m just looking to have fun, and if I meet the right woman then I would be open to a relationship,” “I’m looking for ‘the one,’” or “I’m open to the possibilities of a long-term relationship, but I’m sort of looking for something casual right now.” Most people online are fairly honest in their intention.
We do believe that while the best way to get to know if you share values as well as chemistry is to observe whether a person’s actions match their words in real life; however, as a precursor, use this list to discover if that “future special someone” you just met online is the real thing. Based on their answer, you can evaluate if what they’re looking for matches what YOU are looking for. And if it doesn’t, someone else is right around the corner. This one will help you determine if your online date has a sense of humor! These interactions will DEFINITELY affect your potential future together, so it’s a great thing to know about ahead of time! Don’t ask things like, “When did your last relationship end and why?
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Things to note: Please DON’T send a list of questions in a personal email.
You’ll make your potential suitor think they’re interviewing for a job! ” is probably not going to get the kind of answer you’re actually looking for.
When you were little, what did you dream of being when you grew up?
What’s the luckiest thing that’s ever happened to you?