Furthermore, the median amount of time a couple dates before the proposal is 3.3 years.But as we found, these numbers vary based on where you live.After compiling these responses, we sorted them by geographic region (West, Midwest, South, and Northeast).We determined that the median engagement age in the United States is 27.2 years for women, and 28.7 years for men -- a 1.5 year difference.Before you can determine if your love will go the distance, you need enough time to go by to make sure you have similar outlooks on handling money, whether you want kids, where you want to live, and other crucial thoughts about the future."To sustain a relationship, couples have to share common goals, values, and interests along with sexual attraction and emotional maturity," says Christine Meinecke, Ph D, author of Everybody Marries the Wrong Person.Decades ago the statistics ranged from six to fourteen months.
On the other end of this spectrum, only 6% of couples date for 8 years or more before getting engaged.
These aren’t women who have been dating for two months, but rather women who are in long-term relationships.
They have seemingly great mates who have jobs and call their moms and open doors to restaurants- but haven’t yet popped the question.
That high usually starts to wear off in six months to a year, and those behaviors you thought you could live with or were even cute and quirky—for example, his forgetfulness or penchant for being 10 minutes late for everything—suddenly become super annoying potential deal breakers.
It takes time to find out if your future plans sync up.