Okay, Evan, I agree mostly with your opinion on younger men/older women. I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman – physically that is, but why would a 28-year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? I can totally understand why older men go for younger women.
There’s no denying that they’re, for the most part, in better shape, with better skin, and less baggage from broken relationships.
But the moment the guy stops doing that, most girls think he has stopped loving them and somewhere down the line, he may also stop showering attention." D'sa says if both of you want to be on the same page, you need to have an unspoken line of what amount of cash to splurge on each other. Don't hide past relationships If you've lived more, chances are, you might have stuff you may want to come clean about.
If not immediately, then sometime later when things start getting serious, you might want to reveal the divorces break-ups that you went through, if it's going to affect your life.
Says Abhijit Naik about his relationship with his fiancee, "We have a 10-year age gap and I went through a bad marriage in the past.
I was open about it from the time we started dating two years ago.
Turns out, experts say compatibility between two people who just happen to have an age gap isn’t as unusual as we may think.But let’s not pretend that we, as a culture, don’t worship at the altar of youth. He’s got the job and the home and the car, and been divorced with a kid already.If you’re over the age of 40 and have ever said, “But I’m told I look five years younger than my age”, then you’re not immune to it yourself. And nobody has more choices than a 28-year-old woman. So if a woman finds it more appealing to just step into that world – to jump from the prolonged adolescence of the late 20’s into full-fledged settled-down womanhood – that could make sense.Actor Mel Gibson and partner Rosalind Ross pose at the American Film Institute Awards in Los Angeles, California, on Jan. Gibson, who is 61, is 35 years older than his partner Rosalind Ross, who is 26.(REUTERS/Mario Anzuoni) Many men and women are seemingly rejecting those cougar and sugar-daddy stereotypes, as some experts are seeing that a substantial portion of middle-age and older singles are willing to choose partners who are younger than themselves.If the age difference between you and your girlfriend is more than five years, there are certain things men need to be aware of so that they can get the most out of a relationship, which is exhilarating, yet at times, demanding, and one that needs a bit more sensitivity and flair on your part as the older one in the relationship. Treat her like an equal You might feel, at times, the weight of the wisdom you've acquired through the years and want to take charge, but make sure you're not condescending.