Commandment #1: Stay in the Here and Now When dating it is very important to concentrate on the experience of being with the person.You should not let your mind wander into thinking about past relationships, or future possibilities.Many people have heard of and benefited from Rabbi Avigdor Miller's "Ten Commandments of Marriage." Rabbi Avigdor Miller's commandments focussed on loyalty to one's spouse, and making every effort to avoid cycles of hurt and resentment. After all, why be loyal to someone who you may not marry?Isn't it better to reject an unsuitable person before becoming married, than to learn to forgive and overlook flaws?
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This form of Judaism may be referred to as Haredi Judaism or "Ultra-Orthodox Judaism".
According to the New Jersey Press Association, several media entities refrain from using the term "ultra-Orthodox", including the Religion Newswriters Association; JTA, the global Jewish news service; and the Star-Ledger, New Jersey’s largest daily newspaper.
The Shabbat Chattan typically takes place on the Shabbat after the wedding.
After the Torah reading, the members of the congregation sing songs and to throw soft candies, raisins and nuts at the groom as an expression of the community's wishes for a sweet start for the new life the bride and groom will soon begin together.