Make sure you two are into it for the same reasons.Patti Stanger, Bravo TV’s Millionaire Matchmaker, is known for her rule of "No sex before monogamy," and she constantly reminds us of this at her mixer events. Who knows how long it will take for the two of you to agree on exclusivity — that could be weeks or months.I may be a bit biased, but I really think they’re some of the best women on the whole planet.And sometimes, I find myself being less than impressed with the men in their lives.Here’s the journalist Jodi Walker writing in the women’s magazine : “I don’t like the premise that one side of a relationship needs to have money. It’s all a way of announcing: Pay attention, ladies, this is what men want.I don’t like that the other side needs to have looks. Stanger regularly doles out beauty advice that many women are resistant to hearing: “Curly hair is like redheads — they just don’t get a lot of play,” she told the in 2011.
Volumes have been written offering guidance and warnings about having sex too quickly.Like her Bravo show “Millionaire Matchmaker,” she offers a melange of useful observations on dating and relationships, mixed with some truly reactionary, fucked-up advice that seeks to corral both men and women into normative gender role behavior.(In fact, we’ve debunked some of this fucked up-edness before.) Let me be clear: if people want to that normative gender role behavior himself or herself, that’s great. But it’s not ethical to teach people their most successful strategy for finding love is to squeeze yourself into a box and follow the sexist script.Men aren’t like a pair of overalls you had in first grade that you get too big for and give to your younger cousin. Read more I have a large group of very fabulous girlfriends. It’s hard to feel romantic and sexy when you can’t feel your fingers and your nose is running. But, that doesn’t mean that you have to wait for the spring thaw to get romantic and creative with dates.Read more I’m open to any and all help in the love department.