They may even be prudish, especially if religiously-bent (many of them are, because religion gives them “permission” to be hateful and judgmental toward others).Cerebral narcissists suffer the deepest narcissistic injury when their intellectual prowess or success in the material world is threatened, someone else is deemed smarter or more successful than they are, or they are exposed as being of only average intelligence or ability.[TRIGGER WARNING: Frank Sexual Content] Not normal. There’s nothing loving nor normal about sex with a narcissist. Most of them are survivors of one or more romantic and sexual relationships with narcissists. In fact, you might be being punished for lack of sex via cleaning up their mess…The worst part? Just him, the girl getting pounded on the screen and his old friend, Rosy Palm. Although narcissists may attempt to teach their kids about sex in a “normal” way, into my teens.
Both types are autoerotic (psychosexually in love with themselves, with their bodies or with their brains). And I s’pose there are twist cones…a little of both. There are guys who are patient, kind, gentle and unselfish. “…my…wife [knew] almost nothing about sex and when we first made love she held me and cried for what seemed forever finally when the crying stopped she said she had not known it could be so wonderful and gentle. Later that evening, I sensed something was terribly wrong, that I’d done something dreadful. And you can be sure they’re having dalliances on the side. There are guys who put your pleasure, ladies, ahead of their own. My mistake was introducing my parent to a boy I liked.Because they aren’t normally promiscuous, they may be either asexual, or (to maintain the image of normality which benefits their lifestyle, or to fend off loneliness), they may desire to attract a spouse, which means sex is used to draw a potential mate to them and/or maintain a loveless marriage.Sex is never an expression of love or emotional connection, because love and genuine emotional connection are things all narcissists avoid like the plague and are incapable of anyway.They see absolutely no correlation between their horrific behavior and our low sex drive. They equate sex with love, yet don’t know how to love. And despite the constant reiteration that, “Sex is a good thing in the right context,” sex and sexuality were always fraught with shame.