Know that if this man isn't looking for a serious relationship, you're not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate.You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you're independent (which means, to him, that you're not going to be in his pockets)-but if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.” ― Steve Harvey, “Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand.(So do black women, which is one reason why Viola Davis has repeatedly celebrated her protagonist's sexual desirability and prowess.) Short of personally evaluating enough members of a single race to form a statistically significant judgment on their sexual viability, we tend to rely on popular culture to shape popular opinion.
He is right on, take the time to get to know the man, take the time to really decide if he is someone deserving of your cookie.
Men will wait on a woman he actually wants a future with.
If he really wants your cookie, he will buy it and that means, he sees you as valuable.
Problem is, he didn’t actually manage to hit any of the eminently mockable aspects of the book, from its predatory creepiness to its own racist profiling (of white women).
I don’t eat what I can’t pronounce.’” Harvey was delighted at his skewering of the book, doubling over at his own punchlines.